Why a blog?

I give up, easily.
Anything. Everything.
Because of a lack of confidence.

People won't like me, laugh at me, think I'm stupid.
That is why my entire life I hid away, in dark clothes.
Black, dark blue or grey.
Anything to make me invisible.

I never used make-up in high school because I didn't know how.
My hair was always the same because I had no idea what to do with it (ponytail, tightly pulled back, in case you're curious).

When I was 18 I got married and I wanted a change.
I wanted the real me to come out.
But I still had no clue how.

At 26 I started this blog.
So that I wouldn't give up, wouldn't forget where I was going.

This is my journey, feel free to walk it with me, every step of the way.
All my failures, all my mistakes.
But also my winnings, my happy moments and my bliss.
I'll be honored to have you with me.


PersonalPosted by Fashiondisaster Wed, November 16, 2016 19:53:11
We all know it,
It's never pleasant,
And we all like to avoid it.

We all take pills for it,
But what I never realized is,
That those pills do just that,
Kill the pain,
They don't solve anything,
They just numb the nerve that is responsible for it,
For a few hours,
And then you have to take another one.

My husband has a degree in Chinese medicine,
So when we started dating,
And got married,
I was introduced to acupuncture,
And herbs.

For my terrible menstruation,
It works really well,
I get acupuncture once a month,
And it kills of my PMS,
And pains,
Most of the time.

In Chinese medicine,
It is believed,
That every organ is connected to another,
Like your bowels,
They can cause you a headache,
And the liver will be stimulated,
When you are lovesick,
So you'll get mad,
And can step over that bad lover who cheated on you,
Sort of.

In the years it made me realize,
That whenever our body aches,
It's just trying to tell us something.

When you have a bad headache,
It can be just about the fact,
That you haven't been drinking enough,
And that your body needs some water,
When the pain is more orientated in your neck,
It's stress,
You need to relax,
And when it's in front,
You need sleep.

But nowadays,
We don't have time to listen to our own body,
Time is spent on work,
Tasks ahead,
Causing us stress,
Leaving us tired,
And taking a pill,
Is just more easy.

But I discovered,
That taking a warm bath,
With a few candles,
A good magazine,
Or a book,
Can solve most of my problems.

Next time you feel a pain,
Or a discomfort,
Take some time,
To listen to your body,
It's just trying to communicate with you,
So you can take better care of yourself,
And you truly deserve that you know.

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